A girl lists the 54 requirements she expects from her future boyfriend

When you are looking for the right person, you know that expectations are high, and if you are of a certain age, “the bar is set even higher”. Most of us bring with them a series of sentimental experiences that have had a more or less profound influence on their lives: love stories that ended in incompatibility, betrayals, cohabitations that turned out to be unsuited to their lifestyle. But all this only reinforces the awareness of who you are and who you would like, at least ideally, to have by your side.

The girl in this story seems to have very clear ideas in this regard: she has trained a long list of “qualities” that her ideal boyfriend must possess. Too bad some of the items on this particular list aren’t aesthetic or emotional characteristics at all…

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July Jinku, 22, is a Mexican influencer who is apparently looking for her “soul mate”, that person who can “electrocute” us with just one look. In reality, rather than love at first sight, it would be more accurate to speak of a meticulously selected love: the young woman drew up a very long list of conditions that a man must meet to become her partner.

“I want him to know English, not be sad and be able to support me financially,” the young woman wrote among countless other things. “He must have a car and spend all his free time with me.”

But don’t worry, Jinku isn’t that “rigid” and has actually decided to split his “preferences” into three macro categories.

These are the main requirements, the secondary requirements and finally the extras.

THE “main requirements” include not wanting children, that she always be supported and nurtured, that he often invites her to eat and go out, that he blindly trusts her and that he is a “feminist ” convinced.

THE “secondary priorities“include not smoking, not drinking alcohol, befriending friends, being fluent in the English language, not dating other girls, being financially independent and to be between 25 and 35 years old.

In the “extras“, she expects him to live alone, to have a car, to be taller than her, to have no piercings or tattoos and to come from a family easy.

In short, the list is long and Jinku’s “demands” are far from easy to meet, which has earned him severe criticism. But what does she “offer” on her side?

She promises to be respectful, to “espouse” the Catholic religion, not to take drugs or drink alcohol, to be “pure”, to always be pretty and to know how to cook very well.

Love always wins, or almost: in this case, one has rather the impression of a desperate search for the “perfect” partner, but in terms of “couple”, perfection lies neither in what one possesses materially, nor in the fact of complying with all the requirements of the other. What do you think of this influencer’s thoughts?